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Jo Candiano's avatar

Okay look, I'm Italian so food is life and all that. But I do respect and understand (grudgingly) that it's not for everyone. And cooking can be super simple. Last night, for example, I grabbed a tim of tomatoes and a piece of guanciale (speck) from a larger piece that I keep vacuum sealed in the fridge. Matchsticked the guanciale, fried until crispy, removed from the pan keeping the rendered fat in the pan, added the tinned tomatoes, chili, all the while the pasta water was boiling, then the pasta. Put the cooked guanciale back in the sauce, chucked the pasta into the sauce to cook another minute or so, stirred in some parmeggiano and that's it. That's it Jules! That's one of Rome's famous dishes, pasta amatricciana. You won't know yourself.

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Hilary Hattenbach's avatar

Love this. Beautiful piece and highly entertaining. I'm with you, Jules. The culinary arts are not for me and ironically, I even co-wrote a cookbook. Lol. My mother was a gourmet cook and I grew up watching her wile away the away the hours in the kitchen blanching and chopping and whisking. She's 86 now and no longer has the energy to prepare lavish meals, but she micromanages everyone else from her perch at the kitchen table. "You have to put the lettuce leaves in an ice bath, Hilary, if you want them crisp!" "Make sure that fish pan is very hot or the fish will stick!" There were times when I was so hungry waiting for her to finish cooking a meal, I nearly passed out. As a result of this childhood trauma, I'm all about meals that take about five minutes to prepare. I use a food processor to chop stuff quickly and most of the time, I just eat salad with some protein on top. Jared is like your husband in that he takes his time and chops everything by hand. He's much more precise and therefore, whenever he cooks, it takes him three times as long as it would take me. So yes, I married my mother. But most of the time, he's lazy and just heats up a chicken sausage in a pan, or makes a burrito. I'm vegetarian and he eats fish and poultry, so a lot of the time, we do eat different things.

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